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14. She includes you on her social media
I haven’t seen her act the way she does around other guys. I asked her to hangout once and she said yes. She brought a friend but she said she was fine if it was just her and I. When I was hanging out with them, a girl I know passed by and I told them that I knew them.
Does she spend one-on-one time with you?
Does she always find an excuse to talk to you or text you? Does she always offer you coffee in the office?
In his bestselling book, How to Get the Guy, dating coach Matthew Hussey explains that back in the Victorian days, if a woman saw a man she wanted to get to know better while out for a stroll in the park, she would drop her handkerchief and continue walking, thereby inviting him to pick it up for her and give it back and engage in a little conversation. A good rule of thumb for how to tell if a girl really likes you is to consider the context. If a woman is standing really close to you in a crowded bar, it’s very likely that she’s just trying to speak without shouting. But if you’re in an environment with acceptable noise levels and a fair amount of space, and she’s still leaning into you, there’s a good chance she wants you to ask her out.
After all, she can feel comfortable with a friend. Also, if she likes you, she’s probably making more of an effort in the conversation. She’s asking questions and being talkative because she wants to avoid any awkward silences. Another good sign is that she’ll also smile a lot when you’re speaking. You make her feel good, and she wants to impress you with her glowing smile.
- Imagine you’re having a conversation with a girl and then cross your arms, lean back, rest an elbow on the table, lean forward, and then take a sip of your drink.
- One way she communicates this is by sending you updates about what she’s doing.
- It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts.
- Get the investment.
Im just confused how she goes from that to touching and talking an laughing alot with me . then she finds me on fb and adds me the same day . i really like her and i wish i had the answers.
Let’s say you’re in a group of friends and one of them is a girl you don’t know and who isn’t interacting with you in the slightest. Let’s say she won’t look at you, or talk to you at all, and when you ask her questions she responds to someone else instead of to you. If that happens, there’s a damn good chance that she likes you so much that she’s freezing up and doesn’t know what to do. Of course she might actually hate you but realistically unless you’re genuinely an unlikeable asshole that’s probably not the case. Also girls tend to like and trust guys that their friends vouch for so if you have mutual friends there’s no real reason for her to actively dislike you.
Remember that girls will go to major lengths to not do anything that could make them look like sluts. Being labelled a slut is one of the worst things that can happen to them and because of that they try to avoid it at all costs. So this means that if one chooses to interact with you in a way that could possibly be construed as being even mildly sexual (I.e. light physical contact) then that’s something you really shouldn’t ignore. Let’s say you’re in a bar or club that isn’t absolutely jam packed and there’s a girl right next to you, then ask yourself why that is. She could be standing anywhere else right now but she’s choosing to invade your airspace so why the hell is that?
Touching is a good indicator that a person likes you or dislikes you. If you casually touch another person and they abruptly pull away, the person does not like you or is not ready for a more intimate relationship. #15 They pay attention when you’re talking.
When she says things like “this reminded me of you” — whether it’s a song or a dumb meme or a piece of trivia texted at like, 10 p.m. — she’s looking for a way to continue talking with you. Not only is she making a note of the things you’re interested in, which is super thoughtful, but she’s also finding ways to bring it up in conversation with you.
That could be a conversation, a dance, or you asking her out on a date. Nothing more. If an attractive lady bank teller looks you in the eye and smiles at you, she’s probably doing that because she’s trying to show good customer service and not because she’s open to you hitting on her. The baseline behavior in this situation is that all bank tellers look people in the eye, smile, and make friendly chitchat.