how to find a girlfriend

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When you find a girl who interests you, ask her to go on a date. Trust me – when you’re a stand up guy, when you’re passionate about your life and you’re interested in living it, people (which does include women) will WANT to know about it and they’ll want you to share it with them. Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice.

RULE 4: Get yourself actively involved with changing the outcome of your life.

Of course, if the situation leads to sex it’s great but don’t push it! If the two of you end up in a relationship you will have more- and better sex than any single guy, so don’t push it with the sex! If she wants to wait encourage her.

If you have never had a girlfriend, this is a great time to start dating. If you dated throughout high school but moved away to go to college, chances are you will want to find a new girlfriend that goes to your school. Getting a girlfriend takes time and patience, but if you find a good match, the process will be more enjoyable than stressful. Forget about sex. Just invite her for the sake of spending more time with her.

Now that you’re ready, it’s time to approach her. Smile, relax your body language and approach in a non confrontational way like you’d do when you’re in Wallmart asking a shelf stacker where the butter’s at. Already have a special girl in mind?

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  • Women LOVE a man who is well-dressed.
  • Positioning is crucial, but once you have positioned yourself successfully in a new environment, you have to start making yourself an important prospect to talk to.
  • Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her.

Yet, for most women, prior to that, they don’t want to commit to the idea of being your girlfriend. So, when you’re dating her and having sex with her, if the feelings between you and her are growing stronger and stronger, you will naturally get into a relationship. Sometimes a man and a woman meet and they get into a relationship immediately. If you want to have your choice of women, you need to be able to make them feel attracted to you as you talk to them.

To overcome your introverted ways – first – figure out why you’re like that, what are your fears around others, why do feel feel you need to get noticed, are you trying to please others and feel you have nothing to offer, do you not feel good enough, those are the questions you need to start asking yourself because within your personal answers is your way out. I hate to call them basics because I didn’t spend years of my life alone for my plan to be reduced to basics. But there is “leg work” involved. You’ll have to explore certain details for yourself whether it’s through me or not. We’re NOT changing the world here and it’s obvious since the beginning of time men have managed to land some pretty amazing and yes beautiful women too.

#4 Be confident. Girls get turned on by a confident guy. Ryan Gosling? Brad Pitt? Yeah, sure, they’re attractive guys, but they sweat confidence.

This becomes especially evident whenever a relationship ends and the man has lost contact with most of his friends and has to start again from scratch. Instead, wait a little while to sleep with her.

And once you get the girl of your dreams, read this article on how to be real-life relationship goals. Women LOVE a man who is well-dressed. It shows us that maybe you have your life together and that you have a sense of fashion (which means you might be able to pick out a decent gift for us when holidays and birthdays come around).