how to find a girlfriend

19 – Dive Into Her Inner Nerd

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So, just follow along and note down what you have to do, step by step, to get that girl, whether she’s the one you’ve been dreaming of for years or you haven’t even met her yet. Don’t be the guy that flirts with all the girls and then asks one girl out that’s in the pack. Talk about a lame move. Just don’t do it, please.

I have this specific girl which i know at school she is at the next section.i know her, she knows me ,just because she knows my sister.i said hi once and she said hi back but she didn’t give me the chance to talk.so how am i supposed to make her my girlfriend? please reply.You can even use my email i will provide you details if you need too. You have to actively make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them. You can do this by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women when you talk to women.

And this will stop you from acting needy or clingy. There are 7 billion people on Earth, and 3.5 billion of them are women. Of those, 2 billion are potentially datable. You do the math.

The best preventive measure you can take to maintain sexual intrigue and avoid the ignominy of the friend zone is to avoid being so available. It’s one of the biggest turnoffs a woman can experience. You’re going to have to be prepared to take the risk of losing the woman. Being in the friend zone is going to be more painful for both of you than losing her or the opportunity to know her.

  • You’ve gotten to the big date, it’s all set up, and now you realize, you don’t know how to kiss a girl.
  • Take her preferences on board and make concessions when she’s got her heart set on something.
  • Wait until you’re in the midst of conversation to bring up any compliments, so you’ve had time to figure out what they are.

Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her. Make yourself ready and be prepared to do things and say things you’ve never done before. If you’re not seriously committed, not much of this is going to help you get a girlfriend. T his rule is here because, and this is coming from my real experiences as a nice guy, we tend to judge couples all too often when we feel like we can not get a girlfriend.

In the back of her mind, she’s looking for someone who knows and gets on with people, and in her conscious mind, she’s looking for someone fun and exciting that sparks her natural curiosity. You may freelance and not be around people much. “Oh, I work at home. I don’t meet many women.” You’re just creating excuses for yourself.

If there’s no scarcity, there’s no interest. Why do people rush to the supermarket in a drought? It’s because the lack of available resources has created a need. Being available is undesirable.

It’s OK to take baby steps.

Assuming you’ve met the girl you want to make your girlfriend… here are our main guidelines for helping you avoid it ending up as just sex, or, having it fizzle out. For many of the men we coach, one of their main hindrances is, ironically enough… their eagerness to find a relationship. They obsess over their need to have a girlfriend, demonstrating clingy and needy behavior. And when they do meet girls they like, they usually scare them away because of this. Or the girl requests an exclusively sexual relationship without a chance for romance.

You’ve gotten to the big date, it’s all set up, and now you realize, you don’t know how to kiss a girl. At this point, you’ve got conversation starters, .gifs, and questions.