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And when they do meet girls they like, they usually scare them away because of this. Or the girl requests an exclusively sexual relationship without a chance for romance. Men who are struggling to understand how to attract women, or get their dating life “handled”… as well as experienced players too… they find it difficult to get a girlfriend, for different reasons. I’m not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life.
People often wonder how to get to this stage. They have what I call a “town mindset” – that sense of comfort only a big fish in a little pond can feel.
It’s not about “favours for favours.” A magnanimous mindset with your friends and network can help you reap tangible rewards in the future. Positioning is crucial, but once you have positioned yourself successfully in a new environment, you have to start making yourself an important prospect to talk to. The mission doesn’t stop once you’ve entered the room.
Before you jump into the “we,” you need to make sure you’re able to commit to a relationship. The step after meeting the people who are significant to her is going away for a long weekend together. It’s not only a suitable commitment test but also a chance to explore a great deal about each other’s characters. It’s a great compatibility test, as you’re confined to a space together with a weekend to do whatever you like.
Over-thinking everything and being nervous or afraid is not going to make a girl find you attractive. Most likely you’ll get friend-zoned. Be assertive by making plans and being clear in your mind of what you want. This also reverts back to the previous point of being comfortable in your own skin – you don’t have to be the best looking, funniest man in the world but if you’re confident with who you are, you will instantly be ten times more attractive than a really good-looking shy man.
- Remember, the reason she gave you for the breakup may not be the true reason.
- Take the time to create the perfect romantic atmosphere.
- I’m not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life.
- Also… keeping a social life outside of the relationship helps to keep it fresh and lively, and lets you put it into perspective as an aspect of your life, rather that it being your entire life.
Of course, if the situation leads to sex it’s great but don’t push it! If the two of you end up in a relationship you will have more- and better sex than any single guy, so don’t push it with the sex! If she wants to wait encourage her.
It has been tested time and time again and with scientific evidence to boot I can say that it isn’t in the cards for me to find a dream girl much less any girl. I am the nicest guy I know. I’ve evolved into the kind of guy I wanted to be and I really like myself.
You don’t have to razzle and dazzle them with Nobu, Sexy Fish, Novikov, and the whole Mayfair tour. She’s just looking to have a good time with you, and she doesn’t want to go to a flash place without you adding value to the encounter once you’re in there. You’ve got to be decisive. Make sure you know where you want to go and what you want to do.
It’s unimaginable and hard to believe every one of them got everything right all the time from the beginning. If you want the hottest girl you’ve ever met, who you haven’t met yet to be your girlfriend sometime in the future, stay here. I’m not saying you have to fuck a bunch of chics and add them to your number, merely stating UNTIL you are ready – do NOT commit to one woman. Do NOT chase ONE woman. Do NOT do this to land the one hot chic you’ve been dreaming of and chasing half your life.
… But Don’t Wait Too Long Either
However, if you wait too long she might forget who you are or have found another guy she’s interested in. Ask her out to a similar venue.